tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post112420034257314022..comments2023-10-17T08:48:04.114-04:00Comments on Not Shady, Just Fierce: Morning Edition - 8/16/05Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124290811591004542005-08-17T11:00:00.000-04:002005-08-17T11:00:00.000-04:00EXPLORE, EXPLORE, EXPLOREFollow your instincts; th...EXPLORE, EXPLORE, EXPLORE<BR/>Follow your instincts; they're there for a reason.<BR/>If you're considering it, date first, be vigilant, test your comfort levels.<BR/>If the feelings are still there and you have addressed the likely fears of recurring problems - go for it.<BR/>By not rushing back into a second-go-round situation I think you can have a better perspective.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124284151793548932005-08-17T09:09:00.000-04:002005-08-17T09:09:00.000-04:00Take him/ her back and forget the pass, everyone m...Take him/ her back and forget the pass, everyone makes mistakes and you all sin, regularly.<BR/>“God so Loved the world that he gave his only begotten son….” To be more like him, and of him are the tasks that are before us. In our work, family, the person we pass on the street so, why not in our relationships? I’m not a dog but I have made mistake and I am so glad that God isn’t more like me…I wasn’t looking to get spiritual on you this morning but, when I talk of pain and hurt and Love of the heart, then I have to speak on spirit too, because when the heart is broken, so is the spirit. <BR/>J’MooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124217186351726932005-08-16T14:33:00.000-04:002005-08-16T14:33:00.000-04:00Not to mention that the versions of what happened ...Not to mention that the versions of what happened in the relationship would be warped by bias opinions. <BR/><BR/>People tend to forget or cloud easily what happened & we would be finger pointing. And since my ex just called me to tell me how happy he has ever been in his whole life. Meaning our time together was shit and fuck everything I did for him and for us when we were a couple, to me they are ungrateful fucks and NO I WOULD NOT EVER GET BACK TOGETHER BECAUSE IT WILL ALWAYS BE A BACK & FORTH & TAKING FOR GRANTED.<BR/><BR/>KrissyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124213378028255082005-08-16T13:29:00.000-04:002005-08-16T13:29:00.000-04:00Well... my initial thought is that dealing with ex...Well... my initial thought is that dealing with ex-es is a difficult situation. Is it humanly possible to really forgive and put everything in the past or do you find yourself looking for signs to past weaknesses? Ultimately time can heal all wounds, but if a scar remains it is likely that ex knows precisely where it is. There's also the issue that you're both different people now. Will he/she like the new you and vice-versa? Final thought: When/If at all possible, go with the new Joe... it's all bull when folks say, "Better the devil you know..."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124205421368113952005-08-16T11:17:00.000-04:002005-08-16T11:17:00.000-04:00I see fire, flames, the police, a court room, a ju...I see fire, flames, the police, a court room, a judge, a crying jury; one day of court, the book coming right at me, and a 15 years to life roommate named Bah bah, w/ Gerri-curls. Not goodAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124202387013269772005-08-16T10:26:00.000-04:002005-08-16T10:26:00.000-04:00For me personally I believe it all depends on how ...For me personally I believe it all depends on how much this person means to you and if the damaged that was done on both parts can be completely erased. <BR/><BR/>If you are able to start your relationship with a blank canvas & truly leave the past in the past then I would say go ahead. As for me personally, I can't do that even though for me personally Tango was indeed for me the love of my life. My ex-husband can't even compare to him and it was more because of the way he treated me which was way better than the way Carlos treated me. <BR/><BR/>I believe it all depends on both of you & your commitment to forgive forget & re-invent. <BR/><BR/>krissyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1124201749626554682005-08-16T10:15:00.000-04:002005-08-16T10:15:00.000-04:00Hey my Peps, Whazzup?I am home from a very short b...Hey my Peps, Whazzup?<BR/>I am home from a very short but fulfilling vacation trip. Montreal, Canada sucked butt, but it served it purpose. The Adirondacks, Lake Placid and Vermont were great places to kick around reading, site seeing and holding you life partner…<BR/>Wish you all could have been there to help us enjoy our 1st anniversary and the making of many more great memories. <BR/>This is my first day back at work and my desk is full. I’ll try to comment on the “On Blast” later this afternoon; I just too much in the clouds right now. I don’t wanna think of people cheating, not now…<BR/>P&B,<BR/>J’Moo<BR/>PS, I missed your words…Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com