tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post115863873325149134..comments2023-10-17T08:48:04.114-04:00Comments on Not Shady, Just Fierce: Morning Edition - 9/19/06Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158701101291521472006-09-19T17:25:00.000-04:002006-09-19T17:25:00.000-04:00I attempt to fix the relationship first and commun...I attempt to fix the relationship first and communicate how I feel, but when all else fails, I cut a mutha off! What can I say, I'm older, weary and my patience are short. I believe after I've communicated what we should work on, it's time to take action! The difference is, I will warn those I consider close, while I will just chop a friendship at the root if we weren't tight.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158689254788400852006-09-19T14:07:00.000-04:002006-09-19T14:07:00.000-04:00I fall in Love with people:not that “Love Making” ...I fall in Love with people:not that “Love Making” kind of Love you feel for you partner, husband, wife, etc. but, Love of a soul and spirit. Once I’m in Love it takes a whole lot for me to fall out of Love. But, I have learned to master the art of Loving from a distance, while holding on to what is real and Loving them just because…<BR/><BR/>“I Love you just because I do”…Anita Barker<BR/><BR/>J‘MooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158681423651742622006-09-19T11:57:00.000-04:002006-09-19T11:57:00.000-04:00I have never terminated a friendship because to me...I have never terminated a friendship because to me that wouldn't reflect to well on the choices I've made as to who will be in my life. However, due to actions and in some cases lack of actions, I have taken away the title of friend and consider them to be either an acquaintance or an associate.<BR/><BR/>RedhotmamagirlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158675224911379702006-09-19T10:13:00.000-04:002006-09-19T10:13:00.000-04:00Yes, there were a group of people that I considere...Yes, there were a group of people that I considered "friends" but at every turn in one way or another it was shown that I was merely a pawn in a sad game. I chose to "terminate" a number of these "friends" at one time. What I thought would cause me pain has brought me peace. I sometimes miss the group activities but feel no remorse in removing the "ill feelings" that the relationships caused. I bear no ill feelings towards any of them, on the contrary I wished the "friendships" could have gone on forever or maybe they would have questioned my actions, but none never did. In the long run it hasnt mattered, sometimes you have to do what you feel in your heart is in the best interests of your well being, whether it be spiritually, emotionally or physically.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158674129512420762006-09-19T09:55:00.000-04:002006-09-19T09:55:00.000-04:00In reality people sometimes grow apart. I can reca...In reality people sometimes grow apart. I can recall several friendships where at one age we had everything in common, then years later we had nothing in common. Once hanging out with them would be so fun then down the line its like "why am I friends with you again???"Dayne Averyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10785784969695629211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-1158670407547290082006-09-19T08:53:00.000-04:002006-09-19T08:53:00.000-04:00Yes, I've had a few "friends" that have caused me ...Yes, I've had a few "friends" that have caused me to raise my eyebrow. I'll speak specifically on one that I truly love. She's a great person, but we're just different. She's heavily into church and I'm not. Being around her became strained, because I smoke and drink (socially), and I curse (hourly). I'm a good person BUT I don't like being judged. To date, we haven't been in contact and it's been 6 years or so, however, if I see her, we'll pick back up on our inside jokes and fond memories and cackle like we did in the old days. <BR/><BR/>-Tiffanie <BR/><BR/>P.S. The "links" section on your blog are driving me crazy. Let me know if you want help remvoing it!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com