tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post3972711512420540177..comments2023-10-17T08:48:04.114-04:00Comments on Not Shady, Just Fierce: Dear BobbyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-63198419695225162232010-03-08T12:14:01.173-05:002010-03-08T12:14:01.173-05:00My brotha, I know I'm WAY late on this post, b...My brotha, I know I'm WAY late on this post, but you and I both know that he's up there, smiling down on you.<br /><br />Stay Blessed.Timhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09830496902018195414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-49325077193607380662010-02-11T12:23:58.837-05:002010-02-11T12:23:58.837-05:00Thanks Kyon/Kahlua...
Bobby was one of my very bes...Thanks Kyon/Kahlua...<br />Bobby was one of my very best friends. Words can't really describe the loss and I have frequently thoughts that maybe his death didn't really happen and it's just a bad dream. Sadly, it happened and I miss him terribly. So, I've given myself these letters as a way to say what I wish I could to a friend who lives on forever in my heart.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-44342368205154867502010-02-11T12:00:34.124-05:002010-02-11T12:00:34.124-05:00Beautiful post Cocoa. Nearly 5 years ago, my famil...Beautiful post Cocoa. Nearly 5 years ago, my family suffered the start of a devastating domino-effect of losing five of its elder members in the span of 2 years' time. My 2 uncle and father within 3 months of each other, a year later, my two aunts one month apart, another uncle the next year and my big brother just this past fall. My father and brother's passing were the most devastating for me, but I have the peace of knowing that our last conversations were good ones, that everything that had needed saying was said, all acts were done. I miss them terribly and maybe you've inspired me to use this letter-writing as a tool to work thru the never-ending grief. That said, without sounding cliche, I live my life making sure that the people I love, KNOW that I love them; to not hold onto grudges or ill feelings for more than 24hours--I pick my battles. We don't know how much time we're gonna have and I, for one, do not wish the "what ifs" on anyone.Shannon Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14707872768181774221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12180121.post-28574219591039485752010-02-03T15:59:33.945-05:002010-02-03T15:59:33.945-05:00This was really sweet. A very heartfelt and very ...This was really sweet. A very heartfelt and very real post thank you for sharing. And my condolensces on your loss he sounds like he was a wonderful friend.Kyon Saucierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02842634449060165965noreply@blogger.com