Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Morning Edition - 1/24/06

Celebrate Good Times, Come On!
Friday’s festivities at La Maganette were great! The ladies being honored, Annette and Micheline, were beautiful as ever and rearing to prove that adding another year under their belt wasn’t going to prevent them from shaking their groove thing. Carmen C. arranged the party and provided the delicious cake. Thank you Carmen. We danced until the sweat poured down our cracks – was that TMI? Afterward, Carmen C., Krissy and I ventured into the Bronx for a late night breakfast. Krissy, I don’t know why I’m saying this, but I’m sorry if I’ve been hard on you lately. Enough said. Carmen C. – you’re a CLASS act! Again, have a wonderful year Freakin’ and Mich.

The City That Never Sleeps; We Just Die
Eugene Reilly was a mail handler who worked the 4:30 p.m. to 12:30 p.m. shift. Thursday night he boarded the Q train (in NYC) on his way home and died of a heart attack. Problem is, he didn’t fall over. So for the next six hours or so, Reilly rode the train until someone tapped his shoulder at 7:15 a.m. and found he was dead. Transit spokesperson Deirdre Parker says, “The policy is that if someone is sitting up, employees are not allowed to touch them.”

Walking on the Runway
Continental Airlines’ passengers were in for a surprise when Troy Rigby, 28, jumped out of his seat and demanded to be let off the plane as it approached the runway to take off from Ft. Lauderdale, Florida to Newark, New Jersey. After biting a passenger and threatening others on board, the pilot depressurized the plane and Rigby threw open the cabin door jumping down to the runway. There, Rigby resisted arrested before officers used a stun gun to subdue him. He now faces charges of criminal mischief, battery and resisting arrest with violence. Rigby was also held for an outstanding warrant for marijuana possession. The 116 passengers and five crew members were unharmed and the flight was rescheduled for later in the day.

Straight, Bi, Gay? What’s the story?
Brokeback Mountain still has folks talking. Either you’ve seen it and have an opinion or you haven’t seen it and been flooded with everyone else’s take on the film. The controversy now is how the actors who play Jack Twist (Jake Gyllenhall) and Ennis del Mar (Heath Ledger) have been quoted as saying their characters are straight and, if not for their falling in love with each other and forming this bond, would lead otherwise straight lives. Strangely, even Ang Lee (the movie’s director) disagrees. Ultimately, the question comes down to, what defines your sexuality or sexual orientation. Is it the act of who you have sex with or what sex you feel most attracted to? Both Twist and Del Mar have wives and children in the movie, but are repeatedly drawn to each other.

On Blast
As an adult, have you ever felt sexual attraction or a feeling that you were falling in love with someone of the same sex? Do you feel that those feelings define your sexuality? Is there such a thing as STRAIGHT folks engaging in gay sexual intimacy – if only with ONE person - and still being straight?

Keep passin’ the open windows…

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Everyone falls in Love with their same sex from time to time. Some act on it, i.e. homosexuality; other well they call it BEST FREINDS. The real question is: How many friends have you loved as much as you love your own life? And it is perfectly fine.

J’Moo

Anonymous said...

Jamie Foxx Music Special Being Sabotaged by NBC!

JAMIE FOXX MUSIC SPECIAL WILL BROADCAST WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 25TH @ 8:00PM EST on NBC!

Now that's a brother you can Love no matter what sex you are into... check out them' lips

Unknown said...

I love my female friends dearly but have never been attracted to any of them. But I also do not have a problem giving compliments to strange woman I see on the street. I don't think that is being interested I think that is just being something that most people are not anymore NICE!!

Unknown said...

Since I am gay, I’ll have to address this question from another angle… As far back as I can remember, I’ve always been gay. I have, on occasion, had an attraction to a certain type of woman – even a strong sexual attraction – but at some point reality kicks-in for me and I realize I would never be truly happy with a woman. I’ve had girlfriends and intimate relationships with women, but never feel completely connected or committed to the interaction. Conversely, I’ve had numerous straight male friends, some of whom I was terribly attracted to, but would NEVER cross that line. Simply put, if you tell me you’re straight I respect that. I have experienced come-ons, flirtation and even inappropriate contact from some of my straight male and female friends, but I’m keenly aware that sometimes these interactions are simply a testament to the close, comfortable and respectful relationship I’ve always shared with my straight friends. I don’t believe that ONE gay experience or a gay sexual exploit with ONE person of the same sex classifies anyone as gay. Love is a very odd thing. Falling in love with someone of the same sex, while otherwise straight, just means you’re human and have connected at a deeper level than just physical – you’ve connected souls.

Unknown said...

RE: Jamie Fox
Talented comic, actor and singer (rumor has it, he also has a HUGE d*ck) – butt ugly, PERIOD!

Very important: Per fellow blogger Kris Almighty, we MUST tune in tomorrow, NBC at 8 p.m. for Unpredictable, Jamie’s special. Check out: http://www.nbc.com/Movies_Specials_More/Jamie_Foxx/

Anonymous said...

Love and Sexual attraction are two different things. I love all my friends that does not mean that I have a sexual attraction to those people. We lust for a woman/man that we have no knowledge of but for what we imagine them to be in bed. I can't see myself having sex with my BEST friend since 6th grade and I've never thought about it.

Is happiness SEX or that person who is there for you without question or is happiness something contained within that many of us can't find without it being attached to some other person.

I LOVE U but, I don't need to be sexual with you to be in love.....

Caspar, please save the daddy drama for another arena. If I know you, I felt your wrath

But then again, it's Just Me.

Unknown said...

Uh...anonymous (Just Me)...although I agree that I can love my friends and not be sexual with them, to be "in love" with someone denotes I have a sexual attraction to them as well. Moreover, stick to the f*ckin' question...damn!

Unknown said...

Caspar have you lost your mind...the last time I went out to that landfill, I mean, Staten Island, it took me close to 2 hours to get back home! Let's agree to meet Freakin' in town.... I love her, but she's missing critical parts... LOL... I only drive over 15 miles when they have testosterone in their system.
Cas... looks like you have an admirer? What's the story with this "Just me" person? What would Father Smith say if he saw the way you can BLOW UP somebody's spot... Just Me... beware!

Anonymous said...

Cas,

An axe is a little large for me to carry around. The rican in me knows all about knives but, it would be sissified of me to pull a blade on a lady.

Rican,

I love your puerto rican/Black ass but I aint going there with you today. I have bigger fish on the menu. You live in NY. Isn't the entire area a landfill?

I know a few Gay men and there's nothing better than the attempt to turn out a str8 guy. They live in Str8 clubs and think that they are inconspicuous. lmao

P.S. I hope that Foxx's special is better than the CD. I was greatly disappointed and thought that he belittled himself.

Just Me

Unknown said...

Cas... what can I tell you?! I met you at the age of 9 and I'll be 37 this year... oh my goodness!!I love you too and the thought of us as the next Thai Babalonia (sp) and Randy Gardner has always brought an instant smile to my face. Yes, I do remember my joy rides when neither of us could see over the dashboard properly... ain't that a blip?! We'd kill the kids if they tried that with our cars today! Hope we can sit around telling these stories well into our golden years!

As for Just Me,
I'm 100% Puerto Rican. The only black in me... well, you guys know the drill... no pun intended. Speaking of gay guys turning straight guys out - that's precisely why I initially mentioned what I did. I'm not one of those guys. Speaking of which, I didn't mention it, but I met two guys at the str8 club Friday night. Enough said.

Holler folks!