Afternoon Edition - 5/20/05

Long Story Short…
Mom and Dad Cruz will be leaving Tuesday afternoon. One weekend to go!... Caspar will be holding a birthday party for daughter Sophie this Saturday. Close family and friend guest list… Cedric P. is sunning in Miami, Fla. Work boy! …J’Moo is planning his trip to see his folks in Va… Daylen F. is up to eight pounds! …Fluff?! Thanks for a great time…Ray, I’ll take you up on that stretch this weekend…Marcia R. is heading down to Va to a wedding tomorrow…L? Oh L?! Where are you?!!!

On Blast
We're putting Anonymous On Blast with: If a straight man ALWAYS wants his salad tossed during foreplay, does that make him a closet homosexual?
Tossing salad, a.k.a. rimming, a.k.a. patio munching, a.k.a. eating booty, is not necessarily a male dominated activity. Both women and men can perform and have the act performed on them. Since women tend to prefer men to pay closer attention to their vagina than their anus, the activity has become much more popular when performed on men. Although gay men may have perfected this tongue tai chi, it is not exclusively done or enjoyed by, gay men. Health: If a dam, non-microwaveable plastic wrap or altered condom is not used, the person doing the rimming (active partner) risks intestinal parasites and even HIV. Hygiene: The anus is used to expel solid waste from the body and may contain residue from the same. The rimming recipient should first insure that there is no solid waste awaiting expulsion – take a crap. After normal wiping, a shower (but preferably a bath) is suggested. Pay special attention to the anus area and (if tolerated) use one of your fingers to lightly wash just inside the opening. Some gay men normally use an enema, since rimming may precede anal sex. It is up to the recipient’s discretion whether you will allow the active partner to kiss you following rimming. In the end it’s your anus and you know whether you’d eat your own a$$. Pleasure: The anus is a very sensitive organ and like the penis, vagina and nipples, can heighten sexual pleasure. Most straight men are unaware of the pleasure of rimming, since many forbid having their anus toyed with during sex. Some straight women are also afraid to offer rimming to their partners out of fear of his reaction / rejection. Ultimately, whether your man (gay or straight) will enjoy rimming is as individual as whether he’ll enjoy oral sex or having his nipples played with. Sexual exploration – including rimming – should be discussed and practiced after both partners are comfortable with the interaction. In addition, inserting a digit just inside and down into the anus increases the stimulus to the prostate gland in men. Both straight men and gay men have found that following rimming this process can be slowly (and carefully) enjoyed. Finally Anonymous, if your “straight” partner ALWAYS wants his salad tossed during foreplay it does not mean he’s a closet homosexual or even has homosexual tendencies. It simply means he’s found another pleasurable ingredient in lovemaking. If, however, your partner insists that you eat him daily, begs you to insert more than one digit in his anus and calls you “Daddy,” it’s time to have a sit down conversation about your future together.

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